For people who enjoy penetration, the best dildos are nightstand MVPs. These typically phallus-shaped toys are designed to provide a pleasant feeling of fullness en lieu of a penis and target some otherwise-hard-to-reach internal pleasure points like the G-spot, prostate, or anterior fornix. They can be held by hand and used to manually thrust during sex or masturbation, or you can slip one into a harness when you’re jonesing for some strap-on play. “I consider them tools and toys,” says sex therapist and sexologist Nicoletta Heidegger. “They help make sex better, more efficient, and more expansive, plus provide many creative features to enjoy new sensations.” They typically don’t vibrate, but there are some that do, adding even more intensity to the feeling you’ll get from the toy.
Beyond lifelike, realistic dildos, there’s also a wide range of dildos in all different shapes and sizes—some that more closely resemble an elegant sculpture or an alien appendage. Whatever you’re into, here are some expert-backed picks to consider (including some that we’ve tried and loved).
The Best Dildos, According to GQ
- The Best Dildo, Overall: Tantus Curve, $60
- The Best Dildo for Beginners: Vixen Creations Mistress, $57
- The Best G-Spot/P-Spot Dildo: Njoy Pure Wand, $120
- The Best Small Dildo: Tantus Charmer, $45
- The Best Large Dildo: Fun Factory Boss, $60
- The Best Glass Dildo: Pipedream Icicles G-Spotter, $47
- The Best Vibrating Dildo: Tantus Tsunami, $52
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The Best Dildo, Overall: Tantus Curve
Tantus
Curve
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Pros
- Size should be manageable for most users
- Good curve for G-spot/prostate stimulation
- Ribbed texture for extra stimulation
- Tapered tip for comfortable insertion
- Harness-compatible
- Anal-safe
Cons
- Can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
Material: Silicone
Insertable Length: 6 inches
Circumference: 1.37 inches
Waterproof: Yes
Talk about a crowd-pleaser: This silicone dildo has average dimensions, a tapered tip for easy insertion, a flared base that’s harness-compatible and anal-safe, plus a bit of texture for massaging internal hotspots. It’s one of my favorites for solo use or strap-on play, because it’s satisfyingly girthy without being so huge as to require a lot of warm-up. Plus, that tapered ending makes it super comfortable when first inserting it.
The Best Dildo for Beginners: Vixen Creations Mistress
Vixen Creations
Mistress
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Pros
- Beginner-friendly dimensions
- Ridged head for added stimulation
- Includes an optional bullet vibrator that can be inserted into the toy’s base
- Anal-safe
- Harness-compatible
Cons
- Can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
- Not much curve
- Bullet vibrator is fairly weak and uses disposable batteries
- Bullet vibrator is not waterproof
- May be too small for some users
Material: Silicone
Insertable Length: 7 inches
Circumference: 1.25 inches
Waterproof: Yes (but only without the vibrator in it)
Newbies to the world of dildos might be unsure what they want, exactly, and may also prefer to stick to the smaller end of the size spectrum for their first time. This slim silicone dildo from Vixen Creations fits the bill, and even comes with a small bullet vibrator you can (optionally) slip into a hole at the base of the dildo to amp up the sensations. Sex therapist Sarah Kelleher says Vixen is one of the brands she recommends most often, since it sells “a really vast line of [dildos of] varying shapes, sizes, colors, veins, curves, [and] testicle sizes.” The ridge near the head of this toy makes it more stimulating for the G-spot or P-spot, while the shaft is otherwise so smooth that it’s unlikely to irritate sensitive areas, making this toy extra approachable for beginners.
The Best G-Spot/P-Spot Dildo: Njoy Pure Wand
Njoy
Pure Wand
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Pros
- Excellent shape for G-spot/P-spot stimulation
- Firmness allows for targeted pressure
- Two different-sized bulbs to choose from
- Compatible with all types of lube
- Good for temperature play
- Comes in a giftable storage box
Cons
- Not harness-compatible
- Some users may find it uncomfortably heavy or firm
Material: Stainless steel
Insertable Length: 11.5 inches
Circumference: 1 to 1.5 inches
Waterproof: Yes
This legendary dildo is a must-have for people who like firm, intense G-spot or prostate stimulation. It’s made of gorgeously shiny stainless steel, and its C-shaped curve takes the guesswork out of finding those sensitive spots inside you. “I like the shape, weight, and sturdiness of this wand, and also that it is easy to clean,” Heidegger says. “Metal dildos are usually compatible with all types of lube as well!” I’ve found that no other dildo can induce squirting as reliably as this one, for those of us who can squirt, but your own mileage may vary.
The Best Small Dildo: Tantus Charmer
Tantus
Charmer
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Pros
- Small and skinny
- Ridged texture for added stimulation
- Tapered tip for easier insertion
- Harness-compatible
- Anal-safe
Cons
- Can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
Material: Silicone
Insertable Length: 6.8 inches
Circumference: 1.4 inches
Waterproof: Yes
Some people prefer extra-skinny dildos, possibly because they’re getting used to the sensation of penetration or due to a medical issue like vaginismus that makes sex feel more painful. For all of the above situations, this is one of the best slim dildos money can buy. Made of comfortably flexible silicone, this toy has gentle ridges all up and down its shaft, so each thrust feels super stimulating against the G-spot or P-spot, even though the dildo itself is so small.
The Best Large Dildo: Fun Factory Boss
Fun Factory
Boss
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Pros
- Long and thick
- Gentle curve and pronounced head to hit G-spot/P-spot
- Harness-compatible
- Thin base so you can get closer during strap-on sex
- Anal-safe
- Suction cup base
Cons
- Can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
- Thin base is harder to hold onto than a standard one
Material: Silicone
Insertable Length: 7.05 inches
Circumference: 1.73 inches
Waterproof: Yes
When you’re craving that deep feeling of fullness, a big dildo can really hit the spot. This one has a slight curve and a ridged head, which make it ideal for stroking the G-spot or prostate. Fun Factory’s silicone tends to be pretty firm, which is a big selling point for people who prefer a more solid surface to thrust with. Its suction cup base also means you can attach it to a flat surface, like a shower wall or hardwood floor, for convenient hands-free use.
The Best Glass Dildo: Pipedream Icicles G-Spotter
Pipedream
Icicles G-Spotter
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Pros
- Double-ended for varied sensations
- Great curve for G-spot/prostate stimulation
- Compatible with all types of lube
- Tapered tip on both ends for easier insertion
- Works well for temperature play
Cons
- May be slimmer than some users prefer
- Not harness-compatible
- Can be hard to hold onto with lubey hands
Material: Glass
Insertable Length: 7 inches
Circumference: 1.25 inches
Waterproof: Yes
This was one of the first glass dildos I ever tried, and its design still holds up: One end is rippled for a more textured sensation either vaginally or anally, while the other end has an L-shaped curve that can work wonders on the G-spot or P-spot. Glass feels blissfully frictionless to the touch, and can be used with any kind of lube, so it’s a good option for people who find silicone too “draggy” and want a smoother glide. It’s also fantastic for temperature play—just dip it in a bowl of cold or warm water for a few minutes before using it.
The Best Dual-Purpose Dildo: Tantus Plunge
Tantus
Plunge
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Pros
- Doubles as a paddle and dildo
- Good shape for G-spot/P-spot stimulation
- Curved dildo-shaped handle is ergonomic to hold onto
Cons
- Trying to thrust the dildo while holding onto the paddle end can be uncomfortable
- Hole in dildo end is difficult to clean properly
- Can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
Material: Silicone
Insertable Length: 6 inches
Circumference: 1.25 inches
Waterproof: Yes
